MUST BE IN THE PHILADELPHIA, PA AREA !! YOU MUST BE CAUCASIAN!! NO EXCEPTIONS!! NO MAGA!! NO SMOKERS!! 54-65...the age of "Looking For" won't update for some reason. Separated and ready to move on! And, NO, there is no chance of reconciliation. I'm a grad student and artist who would rather keep the home fires burning and be creative than sit in an office all day. Yes, I'm old fashioned and actually prefer the traditional gender role! Relax, I'm not talking gold-digger lady of leisure sort of stuff. I just know who I am and where I'm happiest. I'm looking for my Italian (living in the Phila. area) American Alpha male (not that I'm subservient, mind you). II love to go fishing, target shooting, walking a boardwalk, chilling in Cape May, and being artistic. I had a pottery studio before moving and hope to have one again in the future! I'm one of those people who is everything and the opposite at the same time. I have a good head on my shoulders but trip over my own feet. I love to see the bright side but not without knowing what's on the dark side, I laugh, I cry, I'm pragmatic and emotional, I'm independent but don't have my sh!t together. I'm creative and happy, I love to laugh and giggle, and I love to love. Neurodivergent for sure so, quirky! I'm looking for a nice Italian man I can take home to meet my father, a man who knows how to treat his lady and respects family values. He's kind, patient, loving, calm, and affectionate. He loves to love and be loved.