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Female
Widowed
Charleston, South Carolina
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Hello. I am a Sicilian NY'er by birth. Now living in the south (though not permanently). I am an introvert that loves to cook, paint, read, garden (even though I am terrible at it), dance (not well), sing (also not well), and endlessly listen to music. I am quiet until I get to know and trust someone. I am honest, caring, kind, empathetic, and understanding. I believe in deeper things than what people show on their surface. I am a loyal, and steadfast friend as long as I am treated the same. I am here to find marriage, not endlessly date. Not be strung along. Not be treated as an option. If you don't plan on getting married sooner rather than later, please skip me.

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Blue
Physique
Average
Height
4' 11"   (150 cm)
Family Roots
Italian
Race
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Never
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Medical / Health / Fitness / Social Services
Income
I'll tell you later
Politics
Very Liberal
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Alternative, Classical, Classic Rock, Blues, Folk, Jazz, Opera, Rock & Roll, Acoustic, Hard Rock / Metal, Holiday, Instrumental, Lounge / Chill, R&B / Soul, Punk
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Steve Martin, Nicolas Cage
Favorite Actresses
Meryl Streep, Kate Winslet
Favorite Artists
If you need someone famous I would have to say Jackson Pollock. But most of the artists I love are local and mostly unknown.
Favorite Authors
Jane Austen, Leo Tolstoy, Virginia Wolf, Agatha Christie, and Stephen King to name a few.
Favorite Bands
Pearl Jam, Dean Martin, I am really all over the place with music.
Favorite Hangouts
Home, bookstores, the ocean
Favorite Books
Too many to list here
Favorite Cities
NYC, Palermo, Chicago, Liverpool, Dublin
Favorite Colors
Blues, greens, browns
Favorite Country
Italy
Favorite Drinks
Coffee or water
Favorite Fast Foods
None! I don't eat any fast food.
Favorite Comedies
Adam Sandler, George Carlin
Favorite Horror Movies
I love old foreign B movies
Favorite Night Clubs
None. I never go to them.
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
As in body part or setting? I love to be kissed by the ocean. Any kiss, on any body part, is appreciated when wanted.
Favorite Politicians
None. They are the bane of my existence.
Favorite Sports Teams
NY Yankees
Favorite Sports
Baseball, and European football
Favorite Foods
Cheeses, veggies, fruits
Favorite Styles Of Music
Alternative, Classical, Opera
Interests
Animals
I love all animals (but allergic to cats).
Antiques
Yes!
Art
Yes!!
Astrology
I like to read my horoscope for fun but don't put much weight into it.
Astronomy
Yes, I love the stars.
Barbecues
Not so much.
Bars
Not at all.
Biology
Yes.
Board Games
Yes.
Camping
Absolutely not. I don't enjoy anything at all to do with camping.
Children
I have an adult son, don't want anymore, but find them silly and love watching them learn.
Comedy
Yes, please!
Community Service
Always, and often.
Cooking
Daily
Dancing
Daily
Dating
Eh.....it's arduous at times.
Dogs and Cats
Dogs over cats.
Drawing
Yes.
Electronics
Eh...not so much.
Exercise
Yes.
Food
Yes!
Gambling
No!
Gardening
Yes.
Guns
No!
Internet
When I have to. I prefer to live in my real life, not online.
Live Concerts
Sometimes. Depends on the type of concert.
Math
If I have to (haha).
Medicine
I work in it.
Movies
Yes, everything but war movies or shoot-em-up type of movies.
Opera
Yes!!
Painting
Yes. As often as I am able to.
Pets
Yes.
Philosophy
Sometimes.
Photography
Yes, I'm no pro but I enjoy it immensely.
Politics
I'm left leaning but I don't entertain many political conversations. And the first word of anything bigoted, racist, or hateful and I will check out.
Psychology
Yes, I am studying it.
Radio
Yes, I love music.
Reading
All the time.
Religion
I prefer to feel how I feel in a solitary way. I do not go to church, and I won't.
Rugs
What a weird question (haha) I prefer hardwood floors.
Running
No, walking or biking instead.
School
Yes.
Shopping
Not too much.
Singing
Yes, badly (haha)
Sky Diving
No! I am afraid of height and I don't fly
Snowboarding
I have tried it.
Soccer
I love it.
Stock Market
Meh....that's what you hire people for (haha)
Technology
Not too much
Television
Not too often
Tennis
I am so bad at tennis!
Theater
Yes.
Traveling
Yes.
Video Games
Not really.
Walking
Yes.
Writing
Yes.
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Very Doting
Trustingness Average
Confidence Somewhat Confident
Independence Somewhat Independent
Mood Average
Romance Average
Sociability Very Introverted
Thought Process Very Artistic
Tolerance Average
Lifestyle
Dress Very Casual
Energy Average
Go Party Never
Religion Average
Neatness Super Neat
Punctuality Always Early
Spending Somewhat Thrifty
Work Ethic Workaholic
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Being at home with my person or people, my pets. Enjoying one another's company. Talking and laughing with the smells of wonderful food and the sounds of soft music.
Describe your perfect weekend.
The ocean. On the ocean, near the ocean, wherever I can smell the ocean. With loved ones, and pets, and food!
Do you believe in love at first sight?
No. I believe in chemistry and deeper connections. I believe in the energy someone puts out there into the world. I believe in actions over words.
How many kids would you like to have?
I have one, an adult now. I don't want anymore.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Not that important at all.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
To fix this crazy world. All of it. No more sickness, no more hungry children, no more poverty, no more housing or food insecurity. My superpower would be healing the world of all its ills.
What is the purpose of marriage?
This is a big question. The purpose of marriage is to have someone see your life, and you see theirs. It is to take care of one another. It is to be genuinely kind to a person you want to see every single day for the rest of your life. It is about balance, loyalty, respect, understanding, compromise, and empathy.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
I have learned to never judge myself based on what someone else thinks or feels about me.
What do your friends like about you most?
I would say they like that I am silly, and love to make them laugh.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
My OCD! I get teased about how much I like order (haha).
What gets on your nerves?
Meanness. Lies. People that hurt people just because they can.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Trust, and respect. Without those, you're going nowhere.
What's the best age to get married?
I don't think there is a best age. I think it is whenever it is right for you.
What turns you off?
A lot of tattoos, smoking (anything), drinking to excess, gambling, pushy people, rude people.
What turns you on?
Kindness, being funny, being able to make fun of yourself (I can for myself), being genuine.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
I hope to be married. I hope to be able to be supportive to a wonderful man, who supports me in return. I hope to be finishing my bachelors degree. I hope to be able to still be able to wake up and find small joys in every day.
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