I'm not here to play games, although I like to have fun. I aim to meet in person and in public fairly soon. The first time people link-up is not proper "Going on a 1st Date" criteria. It is "where we first met" ; ) Like putting your feet in the ocean shore to feel the water... "Am I going to stay on the beach or walk in waist deep?" Meeting in person for the first time allows for biology to give a definitive response of "No. or Yes, you may commence courtship if you choose"