I’m looking for someone who can make me laugh, hold a decent conversation and flirt without turning it into a job interview. Confidence is attractive, arrogance isn’t. I like a man who knows what he wants, says what he means and can match my energy without trying to tame it. Chemistry matters, affection matters, and so does actually enjoying each other’s company. I’m not looking for a one-night stand — mainly because I’m quietly confident one night wouldn’t be enough.