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Male
Widowed
Nutley, New Jersey
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In their own words

2nd generation Italian-Am. male looking for a Lady of similiar heritage

I'm a widower of 4+ years w/ 3 adult children plus 1 grandchild. One of my kids live at home and we have a 14 yr old Lab mix. At this point in time, I'm looking for a casual relationship with someone who might be able to understand and accept the fact that after 35 years of marriage, it's difficult to get back into the world of dating and establishing a new relationship. I'm more of a laid back person who is more comfortable staying at home or visiting with friends rather than constantly going out. I enjoy going out to breakfast a couple of times a month, having pizza on weekends and dining out at an Italian restaurant once or twice a month. I'm looking for someone who is low maintenance and who enjoys a quiet atmosphere than always being on the go. Someone who is willing to compromise if there is a difference of opinion. A person who is caring and willing to express her ideas and thoughts in a thoughtful and non-hurried manner. I currently have a contract job and also have 2 seasonal, part-time positions with 2 professional sports teams and work about 35-40 events a year from mid-March-Oct. In addition, I volunteer with 2 local organizations and am on the executive board for each group. Both groups meet once a month plus possibly 1 or 2 special events for 1 group.

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Hazel
Physique
Average
Height
5'  7"   (170 cm)
Family Roots
Italian
Race
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Christian
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Other Professional Services / Trade
Income
$45,000 - $60,000
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Conservative
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Classic Rock
Favorites
Favorite Authors
Tom Clancy
Favorite Country
USA
Favorite Fast Foods
Pizza
Favorite Magazines
Consumer Reports
Favorite Sports Teams
AC Milan
Favorite Sports
International Football
Favorite Foods
Italian
Favorite Styles Of Music
Classic Rock
Interests
Barbecues
As many as possible during the summer
Camping
Used to - sold pop-up in 2003
Children
My 3 kids plus my granddaughter
Comedy
Bill Cosby
Community Service
I volunteer for 2 local organizations
Dogs and Cats
We have a soon to be 15 yr old black lab mix
Exercise
Walking
Food
Italian of course !
Live Concerts
Clapton, Foreigner, Rod Stewart
Religion
Catholic
School
Montclair State, NJIT
Shopping
outlet malls now & then
Soccer
Working MLS games and watching / working international matches
Traveling
Throughout the USA
Personality
Adventurousness Very Cautious
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Trustingness Average
Confidence Somewhat Humble
Independence Average
Mood Average
Romance Somewhat Romantic
Sociability Somewhat Introverted
Thought Process Somewhat Analytical
Tolerance Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Casual
Energy Average
Go Party Rarely
Religion Large Part
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Somewhat Thrifty
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
The perfect evening would probably be several hours long and include a nice quiet dinner preferably without having to shout out over background noises. Casual conversation should be constructive so that each person might be able to gain an insight / perspective about the other individual so that could be formulated. After dinner, perhaps a walk in a local park would be in order or maybe even a movie.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Depends
How many kids would you like to have?
None - I already have 3
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Physical appearance is important but other characteristics that are of importance are intellect, caring and being sociable
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Life is ever-changing
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Compatibility
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
I hope to be retired and enjoying the 'golden years'
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