Looking for fun! Not games

A little about myself... I would describe myself as stable in my career and goal-oriented. I enjoy making people laugh. I am intelligent and can carry on meaningful conversations. I care about other people's feelings. When I'm with someone special I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, I'm big on surprises with little gestures that put a smile on that special persons face. I am sensual, playful, and basically like having that type of fun you see two people who just met in the movies having! I feel there has to be mutual physical attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. So being fit and having good looks are important (but not everything), as well as sensuality and affection. I am a very hard working and dedicated person and I live life to it's fullest. I laugh often, am very optimistic, and think goals are important. I have young children, ages 8 and 6, that I simply love. I would like to meet someone that understands I don't want more kids and cannot have more, but that if she has kids that is AWESOME. I am currently striving for my Bachelors in Computer Science, and I will get there! I study a lot for both work and school. It will all pay off in the end. In my free time I spend lots of time with my children, (they are with me every other 2 weeks). I try to exercise daily, enjoy the movies, and having spontaneous fun. I always try to keep busy doing something. Oh and I like to cook, especially on the grill.