I know what I want. I know what I don't want. I know very few things in life are really important. Friendship and appreciation are the hall mark of any good relationship. A person's age is only a number and no indication of the depth and breath of their consciousness.Real intimacy is mental emotional and it's depth hinges on mutual understanding . Feeling something ,and having it move you is far more important than intellectually understanding it. Love and surrender to each other is the key and core of any real relationship. Color, race and ethnicity are meaningless, insofar as determining the worth of a person/ Character and deeds make the man or the woman, not some covering or label.