Looking for Anam Cara

So, here I am looking for ONE great relationship. Someone you think about and enjoy being around and who accepts you, as well as each other for who you are. I am a tall 6'4 , 220, fit, attractive guy. I enjoy working out, fitness.and running every day. I am very outgoing and definetly have a quick wit. Enjoy golf, huge beach lover. Love the city at night and drives out east to hamptons in summer. I believe in old fashioned values (like writing hand written thank you cards and holiday traditions) and the importance of family (i'm italian) and friends . I am smart, confident, sensual without trying and also very down to earth. I have been successful in my career but I am not a workacholic and do not obtain my entire identity through work or fitness. As of 2013 BALANCE is what I am working at. Looking to be successful in a forever relationship. My feeling is Learning from past mistakes is essential to finding this success. I am not looking for perfect only perfect for me.......... " it is startling truth that how you see and what you see determines how and who you will be"--JD Try not to become a man of success, try to become a man of value.-- Einstein