My ideal man has a world view, is family oriented, and is loads of fun. He should be able to round the jagged edges in my personality and compliment my with his confidence. He should be spiritual but not religious. A reader who enjoys both entertaining and adventures. He should be comfy with children and Big Families, I have 13 siblings and over 40 nieces and nephews. He should enjoy a bit of resale and antique shopping , grilling and trying out new recipes in the kitchen together. He need not be rich or perfect, but enterprising and creative with integrity and a sense of compassion and basic morality. He loves dogs!! Swimming, working out outside, long walks on winter nights, BBQ's and nights in watching classic movies. He can be silly... and long as he is mature. Grey Hair, don't care, Taller than me cool, but no biggie. Above all know how to laugh make me laugh and not take it ALL so seriously.