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Mesa, Arizona
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Cerebral and diverse gentleman seeks an enchanting Italian lady from Italy*

Hi Ladies! * I will, however, consider another nationality or American if worldly, but Italian is my goal. IMPORTANT: First, I am really 45 years old, but for some reason I age slowly. I look, act, am able, have activities like a 32 year old. REALLY! I need a younger woman who can look pass my birth certificate and see me for who I am. That's why I listed myself as 35 years old. Second, you must want to have children. I keep my body, mind, and soul fit constantly. I am open minded, but know that I must make limits that are healthy for my life. I believe that the only reason I am here is to help others, to make them laugh, and to create great times to last a lifetime. I really like chocolate. I believe to give until it's uncomfortable is the only way to get comfortable with giving more. I enjoy volunteering to help children and the elderly. I really like skinny dipping. I like surprises and I don't peek. I can keep a secret and never tell a soul. I see that everything around me is from the same source and I try to have no ego. I am understanding and growing everyday. I am intelligent and getting smarter. I am strong and through letting go becoming even stronger. I am nonviolent, but a trained fighter. I am a minimalist. I prefer professionals. I love dogs! I believe in actively keeping your mind open. I love accents and foreign women! I think there is nothing wrong with living with your family. Family is everything! I am liberal and progressive.

Best Feature
5'  8"   (173 cm)
Family Roots
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Has Kids
Wants Kids
Doctoral Degree
Very Liberal
What languages do you speak?
English, Spanish
Favorite Music
Acoustic, Alternative, Blues, Classical, Classic Rock, Dance / Electronica / House, Hard Rock / Metal, Hard Rock / Metal, Rock & Roll, New Age, Punk, Rap / Hip-Hop, Reggae
Favorite Actors
Kurt Douglas/Robert Redford/Burt Reynolds/Jackie Gleason/Keanu Reeves/Nicholas Cage/Clint Eastwood/Steve McQueen
Favorite Actresses
Jennifer Lopez,/Jennifer Connelly/Penelope Cruz/Sophia Loren/Meryl Streep/Alice Eve/Sandra Bullock/Salma Hayek/Goldie Hawn
Favorite Artists
Ansel Adams/John T Barrett/Andrew Wyeth/Norman Rockwell/Botticelli/Dali/Monet/Van Gogh/Seurat/Renoir/Rodin/
Favorite Athletes
I play sports, I don't watch them unless it's the playoffs or Yankees vs Red Sox
Favorite Authors
Eckhart Tolle/The Dalai Lama/Patanjali/Gautama Buddha/Mostly read nonfiction...journals, magazines, web pages, text books, etc.
Favorite Bands
Norah Jones/Pendulum/Black Sun Empire/Jewel/Rat Pack/Groove Rider/Prodigy/VNV Nation/Bassnectar/Pink Floyd/Red Hot Chilli Pepper
Favorite Hangouts
Pubs/Beer & Wine Bars/Drum n Bass clubs/Psytrance Parties/ Museums/Charity & Fundraisers/
Favorite Books
The Education of Little Tree/The Peaceful Warrior/The Bible/The Joy of Happiness
Favorite Cities
Firenze/Savannah, Georgia/London/Stockholm/NYC/Boston/Galway, Ireland/Bogotá/Hono
Favorite Clothing Stores
Favorite Colors
Ferrari Red/Candy Apple Red/Sky Blue/Midnight Blue/Forest Green/Jet Black
Favorite Country
Favorite Drinks
Brunello/Shiraz/Petite Sirah/Reisling/Port/Hitachino Nest/Newcastle/Dogfish Head/Ninkasi/Delirium Tremens/Glenfiddich/Grey Goose
Favorite Fashion Designers
Favorite Fast Foods
Five Guys/Taco Bell/Carl's Junior/Jack In The Box/Wendy's
Favorite Magazines
Popular Mechanics/Discover/Scientific American/New England Journal of Medicine/Journal of the American Medical Association
Favorite Comedies
Ferris Bueller's Day Off/Animal House/Stripes/Smokey And The Bandit/Happy Gilmore//American Pie/Home Alone
Favorite Dramas
Star Trek (all of them)/Star Wars/Pretty In Pink/Sixteen Candles/Breakfast Club/Donnie Darko
Favorite Horror Movies
Favorite Action Movies
Favorite News Anchor
Favorite Night Clubs
Tunnel, NYC/Hippodrome, London/Ruby Sky, San Francisco/Middle East, Boston/Crystal Ballroom, Portland/Toad's Place, CT
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
Favorite Plays
Favorite Politicians
Nancy Wyman, Lieutenant Governor of Connecticut and my former employer
Favorite Sports Teams
Boston! Red Sox, Celtics, Patriots, and Bruins
Favorite Quote From A Movie
Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Favorite Restaurants
Alina's (formerly Carmelina's), South Hadley, Mass/Ernie's Pizzeria, New Haven, Conn/Il Vinaio, Mesa, Arizona/Mama Mia's, Boston
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Crystal Blue Persuasion/Goin' Down by The Monkees/Black by Norah Jones/Rocket Scientist by Teddy Bears/Shimmy Shimmy Ya
Favorite Sports
I play...Tennis/Golf/Baseball/Ultimate Frisbee/Road Races/Paint Ball
Favorite Stocks
Favorite TV Comedies
BIG BANG THEORY, Sullivan & Son, Family Guy, South Park
Favorite TV Dramas
Criminal Minds (I know bad for your brain), Dr Who, Sherlock, Breaking Bad
Favorite TV News Sources
BBC World News, PBS
Favorite Foods
Lasagne, Eggplant Parmesan, Manicotti, Beluga Caviar, Coconut Oil, Chestnuts, Chocolate, Ben & Jerry's, Pizza, Indian, Mexican
Favorite Styles Of Music
Drum n Bass, Breaks, Trance, Punk, Electro, The Blues, Rock n Roll, Classic Rock, Calypso, Industrial, Classical, Irish, Hip Hop
Nope...although I have been told I'd be great at it. Did it everyday at work!
Dogs rule!
Only cheap way to get real wood furniture and the craftsmanship is excellent
The first love loss I had with the US was when government cut art programs at schools. There is no life without art!
Every profile I look at and every letter I get I check it. I am adept in astrology. Not dependable outside of relationships.
Do you know what ISON was and live in North America? I do....that's how important astronomy is to me.
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Very Doting
Trustingness Somewhat Gullible
Confidence Very Confident
Independence Very Independent
Mood Somewhat Chill
Romance Somewhat Romantic
Sociability Very Extroverted
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Compliant
Dress Somewhat Formal
Energy Very High
Go Party Often
Religion Very Large Part
Neatness Average
Punctuality Often Late
Spending Very Thrifty
Work Ethic Driven
Describe the perfect evening.
Depends on too much for one answer
Describe your perfect weekend.
Depends on the week I had. Laying on the couch all weekend snuggling with my sweetie works some weekends and others I am thinking what the heck! let's fly to Paris for dinner. Really
Do you believe in love at first sight?
How many kids would you like to have?
How important is someone's physical appearance to you? on the west coast has been trying. No one dresses well except the valley girl types which I appreciate. Thank you! I am from the New York area and dressing and looking good are just the way you do things. My nickname in college was Dapper John.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
The Power of Magic so I could do anything I want.
What is the purpose of marriage?
Companionship, partnership, and union at the level of the soul.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Shut up and listen
What do your friends like about you most?
My sense of humor which is random and unexpected
What do your friends tease you about the most?
That I am really gay because I dress well, am well manicured, and don't do a lot of the typical guy activities American men do.
What gets on your nerves?
Machines and electronics that do not work like they are engineered to work. A machine has one purpose and if it cannot be fixed it should be destroyed! My last laptop I placed on a stump and smashed repeatedly with a sledge hammer. LOVED IT! People? I get that they are flawed and have issues. I am pretty patient with people. Second, selfishness and greed.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
What's the best age to get married?
There is not one
What turns you off?
Bad Smells...Callousness, Anger, Jealousy, Hatred, Bitchiness
What turns you on?
Red Lipstick & Dresses, Kinkiness, Very Dotable; Super Smart, Confident and Dominant Girls, Cleavage
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Starting my own medical clinic somewhere by day and managing a few children while sneaking in some romance with the wife ;0o
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