My I'm pretty laid back until I get to know someone. Attracted to a loving personality with a mature sense of humor wins my heart. Common interests are good, but sincerity, goal-oriented, a sense of accomplishment, the love of family are more turn-on's for me. I'd enjoy someone who knows how to stand-up, take-charge and be the decision maker when needed. And I'll love you if you're... A gentleman, bright, sophisticated, stable, and yourself. Btw - if you...1) indulge in recreational drug use or should be in rehab instead of a relationship; 2) looking for free therapy to gripe about your ex; 3) are seeking an instant bed buddy; 4) posted a much younger pic of yourself and/or incorrect age; 5) are married; 6) are working in "construction" to justify being unemployed 98% of the time regardless of the weather; 7) dont interact w your children because your ex is still alive; are only looking for a ltr because you are too emotionally irresponsible, detached or every woman is like your ex so you dont qualify as ever being a husband; 9) are still sulking, stocking or sweating over your ex; 10) are older than 52 years old; 11) are looking for an email pen-pal; 12) are shorter than 5'10" tall (and I mean it!); 13) still live w your parents, relatives or roomates, 14) have long hair. 15) did not post a photo (or the only 1 you have is hiding behind dark glasses) or 16)have more problems than a math book... You have my permission to move onto the next profile. Good luck w your